I once went to a home where my friend had 8 children and his youngest son was potty training in the middle of the living room on one of those potty training chairs.
We are on good terms and I would hate our relationship to become grim.
I only order it when my husband isn't going to be around for 24 hours so I can fart in peace.
I also want to kill him.
I also thought of older people doing things with me also when i was a twelve year old boy.
Why not look at those teenage boys your age that look older or younger? Yes, most of go through the stages of therapy not knowing, knowing, realizing, liking it, education.
I haven't seen my 13 year old daughter for 3 years.